Tell us their name and a few of the things you remember most, and we write a custom memorial song around them: the way they laughed, the things they made, the place they loved. Hear a sample before you pay; the full song is $9.99.
Listen to a custom memorial song
Two memorial songs made on this page from the memories shown under each one. Press play, then open the song page to see what family and friends see when you share a custom memorial song.
In memory · Country
I Carry You Home
For Robert, from Anna
What they wrote: “Dad fixed every neighbor’s lawnmower for free, taught me to fish at Miller Lake at sunrise, and whistled Johnny Cash while he cooked Sunday breakfast. He passed in March. We still keep his chair by the window.”
What they wrote: “She grew tomatoes taller than me, kept butterscotch candies in every coat pocket and sang hymns while she hung the laundry. Ninety-one years of an open door and a warm kitchen.”
Their name, who they were to you, a music style and a few sentences about them: what they did with their hands, what they always said, a place or a habit you picture when you think of them. Those details are what make a custom memorial song about them and nobody else.
Step 2
Hear your sample
In a few minutes you get two versions, with lyrics written from your memories and their name in the first line and the chorus. Listen to the first 45 seconds of each and read all of the lyrics. If something is not right, make another version or change your words.
Step 3
Unlock and share
For $9.99 you unlock both full versions, MP3 downloads and a private page with their name, the cover art and your message. Share the link with family, or play it at the service.
Why a custom memorial song can help
When someone dies, the songs people reach for are usually other people’s songs. They can be beautiful, but they are about someone else. A custom memorial song is about the person you lost: the lawnmowers he fixed for the neighbours, the butterscotch candies she kept in every coat pocket, the chair by the window that is still theirs.
It can also give the family something to do together. Gathering the memories, deciding what matters most and choosing the music is a quiet way to remember out loud. Many families share the custom memorial song with relatives who could not travel to the funeral, so everyone hears the same tribute.
And it stays. The MP3 is yours to keep and the page stays up, so the song can be played on their birthday, on the anniversary of their passing, or any evening you want to hear their name again.
When families use a custom memorial song
Funeral or memorial service
Play it as people arrive, after the eulogy or as the service closes. A gentle acoustic, country or gospel style suits most services.
Celebration of life
For a celebration of life, a warmer, more upbeat custom memorial song can match the mood: their favourite jokes, the parties they threw, the music they loved.
Memorial slideshow
Add the MP3 to a slideshow of photos. Each version runs a few minutes, about the length of thirty to forty pictures.
Their birthday
The first birthday after a loss is hard. Playing their song with the people who loved them gives the day a shape.
Anniversary of their passing
A year on, a custom memorial song can be a way to gather the family again and remember the person rather than the loss.
Holidays without them
Christmas, Thanksgiving or the family reunion: a song with their name in it can make room for them at the table.
For relatives far away
Send the link to the cousins overseas or the friend who could not come. The page opens on any phone.
A pet who was family
Losing a dog or cat is real grief. A pet memorial song with their name, their favourite walk and their bad habits can say what a card cannot.
Who families make a custom memorial song for
A song in memory of Dad
What he fixed, what he taught you, the song he whistled, the advice you still hear in his voice. A custom memorial song for your father can be played at the service and on Father’s Day after.
A song in memory of Mom
Her kitchen, her laugh, the way she checked on everyone. Many people make a custom memorial song for their mother to share with the brothers and sisters who remember her the same way.
Grandparents
Their garden, their stories, their long life. A memorial song for a grandparent often becomes the thing the grandchildren play to remember them.
A husband or wife
How you met and what your years together were like. If writing it feels like too much, a family member can fill in the form with you.
A friend
The trips, the jokes, the phone calls. A song from the whole friend group can be played at the memorial or the gathering afterwards.
A pet
Choose Pet as the relationship and write about their favourite spot, the walks and the way they greeted you at the door.
Choose a style that fits them
The style sets the mood. Choose the music they loved, or the feeling you want people to leave with: quiet and reflective, or warm and grateful.
Pop
Warm and hopeful, for a celebration of life that remembers the good times.
Acoustic
Guitar and voice, quiet and close. The most common choice for a memorial service.
Country
Story first, for a life of hard work, open roads and family.
R&B
Soulful and tender, for someone who filled the house with music.
Rock
For the one who never turned the volume down. A tribute that sounds like them.
Romantic ballad
Slow and emotional, for a husband or wife and a lifetime together.
Folk
Simple and honest, good for a long life told as a story.
Jazz
Gentle and dignified, for a grandparent or a quiet gathering.
Hip hop
For a young life, a friend group, or someone who loved the genre. Rhythm and memories.
Latin pop
Warm and full of life, for a family that remembers with music and dancing.
Gospel
Comforting and full of faith, for a church family and a homegoing service.
Kids
Simple and gentle, if children are helping to remember a grandparent or a pet.
From a few memories to a custom memorial song
Here is the kind of answer that works. Name: Robert. Relationship: dad. Style: country. Story: “Dad fixed every neighbor’s lawnmower for free, taught me to fish at Miller Lake at sunrise, and whistled Johnny Cash while he cooked Sunday breakfast. He passed in March. We still keep his chair by the window.” From Anna.
That is enough for a custom memorial song that opens on his name, moves through the lake at sunrise and the Sunday breakfasts, and comes back to the chair by the window in the chorus. It is one of the examples above, so you can hear what came out. You get two versions; if a memory is missing, add it and make another before you pay.
How to write their story
You have about 300 characters. Small, concrete memories work better than big words: “she was a wonderful person” could be anyone, but “she kept butterscotch candies in every coat pocket and sang hymns while she hung the laundry” could only be her.
Good details: what they did every day, something they made or fixed, a phrase they always used, a place they loved, the music they played, and the thing you most want to say to them now. Write their name the way the family said it, such as Grandma June or Pops.
If you are making it for a service, choose a gentle style unless they would have wanted a party. You can make up to three samples before paying, so it is fine to try one and change it.
How much does a custom memorial song cost?
A custom memorial song written and recorded by a professional songwriter usually costs from about $99 to several hundred dollars and can take days or weeks, which is often longer than the time before a service.
This custom memorial song is made with AI from your memories, so it is ready in minutes and costs $9.99, once. You hear a sample before you pay and can redo it up to three times for free. The price covers both full versions, MP3 downloads and the song page. No subscription, no credits.
How to share a custom memorial song
When you unlock it you get a private link to the song page: their name, your message, the cover art and both versions. Only people with the link can open it, and nobody needs an account.
Send it to family, print the link in the order of service, play it at the gathering or add the MP3 to a photo slideshow. There is no right way to share a custom memorial song; many people listen alone first, then with family.