TL;DR
The best Christmas songs for couples depend on what you are doing with them. To sing together, pick duets like "Baby, It's Cold Outside" (the 2019 rewrite), "Merry Christmas" by Ed Sheeran and Elton John, or Bing Crosby and David Bowie's "Peace on Earth / Little Drummer Boy". For a slow dance by the tree: "This Christmas", "Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas", "Cold December Night". For a cute post: "All I Want for Christmas Is You" or "Underneath the Tree". All twenty are below. And if you want a Christmas love song that is actually about the two of you, with their name, your first date and your silliest tradition, use the form just below. Press Hear a free sample for two versions; Unlock for $9.99 keeps both songs, the MP3s and a private gift page to send.
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In this guide
- What makes great Christmas songs for couples
- Duets for couples to sing together
- Slow dances by the tree
- Cute Christmas songs for couples to post
- Songs for your first Christmas together
- Christmas date ideas with a soundtrack
- A Christmas love song with their name
- Ways to give it
- FAQ
- Final take
What makes great Christmas songs for couples
A lot of Christmas music is about family, snow or Santa. The Christmas songs for couples that last are the ones about wanting one particular person, which is why so many of the standards are really love songs wearing a scarf. When you choose, think about the moment:
- Singing together needs a duet, or at least a song with two clear parts.
- Dancing needs a slow, steady tempo, roughly the speed of a waltz or a slow sway.
- Posting needs a recognisable chorus in the first fifteen seconds.
- Giving needs words that sound like you could have said them.
Read the lyrics before you dedicate anything. Some famous Christmas songs that sound romantic are actually about breakups, which is fine for karaoke and less fine for an anniversary card.
Duets for couples to sing together
Karaoke night, car rides, the kitchen while the cookies bake: these Christmas songs for couples are built for two voices.
- "Baby, It's Cold Outside." The 1940s duet everyone knows. Many couples now prefer John Legend and Kelly Clarkson's 2019 version, which rewrote the lyrics so both singers clearly want to stay.
- "Merry Christmas" – Ed Sheeran and Elton John. A 2021 duet with an easy chorus and a cheerful video to recreate.
- "Peace on Earth / Little Drummer Boy" – Bing Crosby and David Bowie. Recorded in 1977 for a TV special; one sings the carol, the other a new counter-melody. Hard, but a showstopper.
- "Fairytale of New York" – The Pogues and Kirsty MacColl. A couple trading insults on Christmas Eve, with flashes of the night they fell in love. Perfect for couples who tease each other.
- "Mele Kalikimaka" – Bing Crosby and the Andrews Sisters. A 1950 Hawaiian Christmas song that is easy to sing and impossible to sing seriously.
- "Kiss Me, It's Christmas" – Leona Lewis and Ne-Yo. A modern pop duet from 2013 with clear back-and-forth parts.
- "Jingle Bell Rock." Not a duet originally, but split the verses and it becomes one, as every high-school talent show proves.
Slow dances by the tree
Turn the lights down, put the phone on the shelf. These are the Christmas songs for couples to sway to.
- "This Christmas" – Donny Hathaway. The 1970 soul classic about a "very special Christmas". Warm, slow and grown-up.
- "Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas" – Judy Garland or Frank Sinatra. Garland's 1944 original is tender; Sinatra's later version is smoother for dancing.
- "Cold December Night" – Michael Bublé. An original song from his 2011 Christmas album, made for a slow dance.
- "The Christmas Song" – Nat King Cole. The definition of a fireside song.
- "What Are You Doing New Year's Eve?" – Ella Fitzgerald. Technically a New Year song, but the question in the title is the most romantic line of the season.
- "White Christmas" – Bing Crosby. Slow, simple and easy to dance to badly.
Cute Christmas songs for couples to post
For the photo by the tree, the matching pajamas, the ice-rink video. These Christmas songs for couples have a chorus that hits in the first few seconds.
- "All I Want for Christmas Is You" – Mariah Carey. The obvious choice, because it works.
- "Underneath the Tree" – Kelly Clarkson. Joyful and about finding your person.
- "Mistletoe" – Justin Bieber. Easy, sweet, a little cheeky.
- "Cozy Little Christmas" – Katy Perry. A 2018 song about not needing anything but the other person.
- "Santa Tell Me" – Ariana Grande. A 2014 song asking whether this one will stay. Playful for new couples.
- "Christmas Lights" – Coldplay. A moodier pick for night-time city photos.
- "Wonderful Christmastime" – Paul McCartney. Upbeat, for a video of the two of you decorating.
Songs for your first Christmas together
The first Christmas as a couple has its own soundtrack: meeting the family, the first shared tree, the first gift you agonised over. Good Christmas songs for couples in that first year are light and hopeful rather than heavy:
- "Underneath the Tree" for "I finally found you".
- "Santa Tell Me" for "please let this last".
- "This Christmas" for "this one is different".
- "Cozy Little Christmas" for "staying in is enough".
If you have just moved in together, "Wonderful Christmastime" playing while you hang lights in the new flat is hard to beat. And for married couples, "Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas" and "The Christmas Song" never age.
Christmas date ideas with a soundtrack
A playlist of Christmas songs for couples turns an ordinary evening into a date. A few ideas that cost little and work every year:
- Decorating night. Put on the upbeat half of the list ("Wonderful Christmastime", "Rockin' Around the Christmas Tree", "Underneath the Tree") and do the tree together. Take one photo at the end, same pose every year.
- Cookie bake-off. Each of you picks three songs; the loser of the decorating contest washes up.
- Christmas market walk. Share one pair of earbuds and a playlist of slow Christmas songs for couples while you walk between the stalls.
- Karaoke at home. Pick two duets from the list above and record them on a phone. Watch them back next December.
- The slow-dance rule. One song after Christmas dinner, no matter who is watching. "This Christmas" is a good default.
Whatever you choose, keep the list short. Ten songs you both love beat a three-hour streaming playlist of Christmas songs for couples you skip through.
A Christmas love song with their name
None of the songs above knows that you met at a friend's ugly-sweater party, that they burn the cookies every year on purpose, or that you got engaged at the Christmas market. That is why many people searching for Christmas songs for couples end up wanting something new: a song with their partner's name in the chorus and your story in the verses.
The form near the top of this page makes exactly that. It is the same flow as our personalized Christmas song page:

- Their name, the way you say it.
- Who they are to you: Girlfriend, Boyfriend, Wife or Husband.
- Occasion: Christmas is already set.
- A music style. Romantic ballad and Acoustic for a slow dance, R&B for something smooth, Pop for a bright singalong, Country if that is what plays in your car.
- About 300 characters of your story. For example: "Met at Dana's ugly-sweater party in 2022, he was wearing a light-up reindeer. We have a gingerbread house competition every year and he always loses. First Christmas in our own apartment."
- Your name, and an optional message for the gift page.
Press Hear a free sample. In a few minutes you hear two different versions with full lyrics and 45 seconds of each. If a detail is missing or the name sounds wrong, change the answers and try again; you get three free tries. Unlock for $9.99 keeps both full songs as MP3s and a private gift page with their name, your message and a cover image. One payment, no subscription.

What to put in the story
- How you met, in one specific line.
- A Christmas tradition that is yours: the movie you always watch, the market you always visit, the competition you always lose.
- One inside joke. It will make them laugh in the middle of the chorus.
- A promise for next year. It gives the song somewhere to go.
If you would like to write the lyrics yourself, the AI Christmas song generator runs in the full studio. For a love song any time of year, try the love song generator, and for wedding anniversaries see the custom anniversary song page.
Ways to give it
- On Christmas morning, as the last present, played on a speaker.
- In the card. Print the gift page link as a QR code inside a Christmas card.
- As your slow dance. Play the Romantic ballad version by the tree after dinner.
- To family. If you are spending Christmas with their parents, a song about how you met is a lovely icebreaker.
- On video. Turn it into a video of your year together with the music video generator.
- Far apart this year? See our list of Christmas songs for long distance relationships.
More Christmas reading: Christmas song gift ideas for every person on your list, and how to make a Christmas song if you want to write the lyrics yourself.
FAQ
What are the best Christmas songs for couples?
"All I Want for Christmas Is You", "This Christmas", "Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas", "Underneath the Tree" and the duet "Merry Christmas" by Ed Sheeran and Elton John are among the most loved.
What Christmas songs can couples sing together?
"Baby, It's Cold Outside" (the 2019 rewrite), "Merry Christmas" (Ed Sheeran and Elton John), "Fairytale of New York" and "Kiss Me, It's Christmas" all have two clear parts.
Can I make a Christmas song with my partner's name?
Yes. Use the form on this page, add their name, your relationship, a style and a few details. Hearing the sample is free; the full song is $9.99.
Is it a good Christmas gift for a boyfriend or husband?
Yes, especially for people who are hard to buy for. It is personal, it arrives instantly, and you can hear it before you pay.
Can they listen without signing up?
Yes. The private gift page opens on any phone or computer, and both versions play without an account.
How long does it take?
Usually a few minutes from pressing the button to hearing your sample.
Final take
Great Christmas songs for couples do one of four jobs: sing it together, dance to it, post it, or give it. The twenty above cover the first three. For the fourth, put their name, how you met and your silliest Christmas tradition into the form above, hear the free sample, and give them the one Christmas love song that is actually about the two of you.
